looks. She's wearing a pink silk shantung blouse. The pearl colored buttons down the front and at the cuffs, along with the tiny lace edging on either side of the facing details the blouse beautifully. Mention how pretty she looks. Catalogue in your mind the color, tailoring, fabric, material and the detailing of the blouse. Let a few days pass, but make it before she has a chance to launder it and wear it again--offer her a reflective compliment. Use your catalogued information to describe how the femininity between both she and the blouse go hand in hand.

Let the eyebrow of her mind raise slightly, this is the first step to let her know that you are knowledgeable in the se matters. A few opportunities along this line offered slowly and easily and just as a matter of fact will give her a chance to casually accept this as being a normal part of you.

Each pair of lovers have special past occasions they usual- ly like to remember. These occasions are perfect for our pur- poses. Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, Christmas and Easter are also good times to work on the project.

Let's fact it, these are delightful times of the year when an undercover TV can enter the world of beautiful feminine finery and buy or browse practically unnoticed. You will usually find 90% of the salesladies are polite and courteous with an honest desire to help you find what you are looking for. At this time presents, of your selection, for your fiancee and items for your- self can be easily purchased. Pick your gifts with the thought of buying an item you especially like to heighten and add to your love for your fiancee. Using this thought to gauge your purchas- es, and having laid certain groundwork with specifically direct- ed compliments, she will probably give any gift additional con- sideration before she would move to question your taste by think- ing of returning it or exchanging it.

You should be knowledgeable or try to become more informed about the everywoman facts concerning a feminine wardrobe--names of manufactures, retail stores, tailoring, sizes, prices, fabrics, blends of fabrics, types of lace, edgings, cosmetology, and things of like nature. Store this information in your head. Call upon

it when a convenient opening presents itself and use it. Remem- ber, the sum total after a carefully planned program has been

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